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The perception of "falling in love", "to love" is associated with a different kind of happiness. It has been describe as unexplainable feelings and this is an advantage for those who love. Yet, to love has many disadvantages but still willingly to take the risk because of this unexplainable feelings.
Its been so long that I have not engaged to this kind of feeling. Too coward to feel those disadvantages again, too coward to feel the pain again. I admire one of my friend who constantly share her emotions and wisdom from her experiences. I admire for setting her worries free despite of the anticipation that she may feel the same pain again.
A statement that struck me most when she was sharing, "I'm the kind of person when I fall in love, I really fall in love." hearing this from her was outstanding maybe because in my side, I am her opposite. Sometimes, I wanted to feel that way too because they say when you fall in love and if you give your best shot to make the relationship lasting, there is no space for regrets.
As I listen to her I can't help myself to fall in love in the idea of falling in love (hahaha...). In the absence of that feeling in my life, I fall in love to the idea. I just want to thank my friend for letting me realize that TO LOVE has both disadvantages and advantages. You made me realize that there is always a choice of making it happen despite of the disadvantage. You made me realize that there is always a choice for giving out the best before ending it. And last you made me realize that even how painful it could be, you have to enjoy until it hurts no more.
Thank you!
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